DO KIDS REALLY SHOW TANTRUMS AND WHAT IS MELTDOWN !!!! PART ONE BY SNEHA NARAYAN

Since it’s now 1.5 months I have been writing blogs on Autism and working with parents

I was eagerly waiting who will ask this question on my group. first dose who have name this problem Autism they only say that these emotional outbursts are called Tantrums

DO KIDS REALLY SHOW TANTRUM??

WHAT IS MELTDOWN???

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To Especially,

Benish ,Meet ,Ruby, Shilima and to all the parents i know…

First those who have named this problem as Autism they make us believe that the child is crying because he is throwing TANTRUMS and later this immense TANTRUM turn out to an EMOTIONAL MELTDOWN.Believe me your perception towards your kids will change after reading this article.its my personal story and our journey.

WHAT IS TANTRUM IN MY TERMS!!!

Tantrum is pure mischief kids do to attain parents attention.we give them the things they want in-spite of the fact that they cannot speak they calm down but MELTDOWN is a problem to worry about..

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WHAT IS MELTDOWN IN MY TERMS!!!!

A meltdown is ‘an intense response to overwhelming situations’.

FOR PARENTS ITS DISTRESSING, PAINFUL BOTH FOR A KIDS AND PARENTS AND EMBRACING FOR PARENTS. It happens when someone becomes completely overwhelmed by their current situation and temporarily loses behavioral control.This loss of control can be expressed verbally (eg SHOUTING, SCREAMING, CRYING), physically (eg KICKING, lashing out, PINCHING, BITING, HAND FLAPPING,HEAD BANGING,) or in both way.
MELTDOWN

  • IS NOT A BEHAVIOR
  • IS NOT A TANTRUM
  • IS NOT A CHOICE

MELTDOWN are of two types I say:

HAPPY MELTDOWN

its a condition where in kids are excited and jump and laugh and sometimes cry out of happiness or excitement.NOT to worry for this kind of meltdown.handle these SITUATION with unconditional love.

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SENSORY MELTDOWN..

When a person experiences too much sensory stimulation, their central nervous system is overwhelmed and unable to process all of the input. It’s a physiological ‘traffic jam’ in your central nervous system and the sensory over stimulation causes a physiological response and sometimes even a sensory meltdown. Because many children with autism are unable to self-regulate, sensory overload can result in sensory-based meltdowns.THERE MIND IS BUSY IN REGULATING PROBLEMS ARISING IN THERE BODY DUE TO ADULTERATED FOOD.SO THEY ARE NOT ABLE TO UNDERSTAND OUR DEMANDS AS PARENTS FROM THEM..THEY ARE IN PAIN HELP THEM COME OUT OF THIS SITUATION.

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QUESTION COMES WHY THESE BEHAVIOR,TANTRUM OR MELTDOWN (SENSORY OVERLOAD)ARISE IN KIDS ???

Since the “VATA Dosha” in the body is high of almost all the autistic kids and they are not able to express their feelings verbally they express these through meltdown or tantrums. Other behaviors that we see in our kids but are less explosive but are equally common, such as refusing to interact, withdrawing from situations they find challenging, or avoiding them altogether,repetitive behavior,toe walking,no eye contact,no respond to name ,problem in nail and hair cutting,putting things in mouth,closing there ears due to sound,closing there eyes due to light,etc there is a long list of these behaviors…

Am i right all the kids behave in some or the other manner like this ????All these problems are due to increased VATA Dosha in the kids body.TODAY will explain you this point of TANTRUM and MELTDOWN through my story or u can say my journey to overcome AUTISM in my SONS LIFE.
My own son used to cry like 14 hours in a day and I was so much into depression I used to ask the doctor and Therapist and they just had only one answer ‘ TANTRUM THROW KAR RAHA HAI APKA BACCHA APNE ZIDD MANWANE KE LIYEA KOI PROBLEM NAHI HAI USE YE TO BUS NATAK HAI ” o my god after listening these words again and again I thought that yes my child just keeps on throwing tantrums whole day,he just wants to go things his way but BELIEVE ME this was the biggest mistake I did that I thought this way.
Thinking ,till date today I am very GUILTY because I am the mom of my child still I believed these people saying that he is just throwing tantrums and it is just he want things to be done in his ways after reading this story of mine you will be proud to think that the kids of ours detected with Autism are in deep pain 😥

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I am telling these things to you parents because I want you to know and understand what is MELTDOWN and TANTRUM please read it very carefully.Writing this story in HINDI as many have requested me to do so.Will later publish this article in ENGLISH ALSO..KIDS MELTDOWN BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU ARE THERE TO TAKE CARE OF THEM.

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MY PERSONAL JOURNEY

We could not afford to go to any of the places,no outings ,no mall,no where.We both His dad and I are travel freaks by road. “Car uthao aur Nikal jate they 15 days par India..tour but jab mere bete ko ye problems shuru huei to hamara SAB jagah Jana band ho Gaya Na ghumne ,na mall,na MOVIE THEATRE..24hrs just staying at home listening him cry cry and cry whole day..

AP SAB KO SHAYAD BELIEIVE HO YA NA HO JAB MERE BETA HONE WALA THA TO HUM DONO KO MOVIE DEKHNA THEATRE MAY JA KAR BHUT PASAND THE..
But ye bhi malum that ke bacche ke AJ Jane ke Baad to 4 saal ye possible nahi Hoga theatre ja kar movie dekhna to hum us samay jab beta hone wala tha to naye ghar par shift hone wale they to humne is ghar ka interior nahi Kara ke 8 lakhs kharch karke ghar par he projector screen. Ka setup kar dala RECLINER CHAIRS ,BOSE home theatre etc..
Ke Jane do ab ghar par ke dekh lenge.you can see the viode on youtube channel JOURNEY TOWARDS NEW LIFE.

Dekha bhi projector par movies jab beta 1.5yra tak ka tha to usi ke saath dekhte they..but fir usko adat lagne lagi.har samay Dhruva Ko projector he chahiyea tha hame Laga itne bade screen may dekhega to uske EYES KHARAB HO jayenge to decide Kiya ke chalo projector band aur TV he dikhate hai.

Fir shuru hua TV dekhna
Humne decide Kiya tha ke TV dikhana hai to sirf EDUCATIONAL he dekhega jaise ke RHYMES, ABCD, Number’s,etc. every new parent of our generation has this thinking..kabhi bhi kuch aur nahi dikhaya..Ab ghar par ye scene tha ke bus din may 3 se 4 ghante TV he dekh raha tha beta.Subah ke do ghante Mai bhi aaram se kaam kar leti the cooking anh household chores bete ko TV ke samne baitha ke aur MATLAB mere mentality aise ho Gaye the ke kuch bhi kaam hai bete ko shan’t Rakhna hai to TV ke samne baitha do.fir kya wo shan’t aur bus karo Sara kaam.. ye hum sare parents karte hai I am sure ..
“PATA HAI IS BAAT KO ACCEPT KARNE KE LIYE BAHUT GUTS CHAHIYE PARENTS KO KI HUM APNE COMFORT LEVEL KE LIYE BACCHO KO TV KE SAMNE BAITHA DETE HAI, mobile de dete hain. HAME LAGTA HAI KI TV DEKHTE HUEA BACCHA TO KHUSH HAI TO SARE KAAM NIPTA LO.”YAHAN TAK KI HAAL AISA HO GAYA THA KI BETA MERA BINA TV DEKH KE KHANA BHI NAHI KHATA THA.BUT KHANA KHATA THA AUR JAISE HE TV BAND SARA KHANA BAHAR VOMIT KAR DETA THA..

I am sure ye problems yahan most of the parents nay face ke hongi..

But fir jab mera beta 2.2 ka hua Aur usme autistic features Aane Lage Toh Phir Wo TV Ko Apne pain se correlate kar liya.Jab bhi meltdown hota pain se scream karke rota to TV ke samne Baitha dete poems on karke to khush ho jata tha SAB Rona, screaming,legs kicking ,head banging SAB band ho jata tha..
To hame Laga ye SAB TANTRUMS hai Jaan brooch kar karta hai ye SAB..

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Din beete situations aur kharab ho Gaya ab din bhar mera beta rota rehta that aur bus TV chahiyea SAB therapist login nay hamare dimag may ye bhar diya ke ye TANTRUMS HAI…MAI bhi din bhar bete ko datne lagi irritated rehne lagi.. Therapy jao ek din may 3 class,ghar ka sara kaam karo, phir din bhar beta rota rehta tha husband ship par situations bhut mushkil ho gayi the manage karna, khud ke liyea bilkul bhi time nahi..

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Parlour jane tak ka time nahi mil pata tha.. I was getting into depression.ke Apne BACCHE KO khush nahi RAKH pa Rahi thi ,parenting nahi aata mujhe , nuclear family the Mai akele husband ship par due to some reasons inlaws bhi nahi aa kar reh sakte they mere ghar may to akele bhut DIKKAT ho Rahi the bete ko handle karne may..
Ye sari baat Maine uske developmental Pediatrician aur Therapist se poocho to Bolte hai TANTRUM hai ye aur TV dekhne ke liyea MELTDOWN hota hai Apne baat MANWANE ke liyea. Aisa karta hai baccha and believe me maine in batton par yakeen kar liya ..YE MERE LIFE KA SABSE BADE GALTI THE YE KE EK MA HOKAR MAI APNE BACCHE KO SAMJHD NAHI PAYE..
Aur jaise jaise din beete rahe akele ek time Aya ke TV DEKH KAR BHI BETA SHANT NAHI HO RAHA THA 😭😭😭😭AB TO PROBLEM AUR BADH GAYE..KAISE HANDLE KARUN MAI ISKO.YE THA MELTDOWN SITUATION WHOLE DAY CRYING ,SCRACHING,BITING , HITTING ,HEAD BANGING, THROWING THINGS 😭😭.Mujhe itna to pata tha ke ye SAB natural nahi hai kuch to galat ho Raha hai BACCHE ke saath..but kya ye samajh may nahi aa Raha tha..to thak ke ekdin.

Finally I GAVE UP ,maine Rishi Ko call Kiya ship par aur bola ke nahi Hoga mujhse I cannot handle our son..mujhe uska ye din bhar Rona bardash nahi hai yaar ghar aajao jao…I was begging him to come home and handle both of us..Immediately Rishi nay company may baat ke aur 2din Baad ghar aa Gaye contract HALF may he chor kar..
Other side mere mom bhi mere din raat rone se pareshan the coz din raat Mai unko phone par ye SAB batati the..
She is an advocate by profession. Aur Mumma ka ek stationery aur Xerox ka acha khasa running shop tha.She left whole shop with staff and came Immediately to my home.
Ab hum teeno mil kar bhi bete ka ye SAB problems nahi solve kar pa rehen they..wo din bhar RESTLESS REHTA THA ,CRYING ,KHANA NAHI KHANA , HEAD BANGING ,SCRATCHING,PINCHING, JUMPING…2 hours restless..

ITNA RESTLESSNESS aur HYPERAVTIVITY BADH GAYA KE TRAMPOLINE may 2 ghante nonstop jump karta tha ..Fir hame ye Laga chalo TV se to calm down nahi ho Raha to BUNJEE se ho Raha hai use accha lagne Laga to Rishi immediately Gaye aur hum EK TRAMPOLINE ghar par he le aye.SAME AS THE BELOW PICTURE.

Itna bada trampoline ghar le aye ghar ke bahar lift ke pass Rakha tha.
Hum teen mil kar nahi Sambhal pa rehen they ek 3yrs ke Bachche KO ..

To beta bhut khush rehne Laga atleast Laga ke chalo TV se to bahar Aya but kya pata tha ke ye nahi musibat le aye hai ghar..ab wo HYPER ACTIVE ke TARAF BADH raha tha..aur ye sare symptoms jaise ke cryig, screaming head banging scratching kicking pinching irritated restless rehna ke saath ab hyperactive bhi.

Three therapy class in one day and he was just tired of performing there ,I use to get up early Sara khana Bana kar 9 “o” clock ready to go for therapy class all day.THERAPY KE CHAKKAR MAY NO SCHOOL ALSO.STOPPED SENDING HIM SCHOOL ALSO.
OCCUPATIONAL THERAPY CLASS

OT may he was not willing to do physical exercise as his muscle tone was v low use to get tired very Soon but tharapist use to make him do all task jitna bhi roye bus karna he hai.SHE USES TO TELL ME THIS IS HIS TANTRUM TO ESCAPE THE TASK AND I USE TO THINK THAT SHE IS CORRECT WE SHOULD FORCE HIM TO COMPLETE THE TASK AND SHOULD NOT LET HIM ESCAPE THE TASK KEPT INFRONT OF HIM.

OCCUPATIONAL therapy may tunnel aur baki SAB heavy exercise jo bilkul nahi advised hai in chote baccho ke liyea aur my poor boy was forced to do all these ye kitna galat hai heavy exercise chote kids Ko Karana IS NOT ADVISABLE TILL THE AGE OF 5 YEARS .THIS I GOT TO KNEW WHEN I joined PUNE Running club.

Non of my trainers advised me to to make him do those heavy exercise these therapist use to make him do.They just told me to taken him walking,running and trekking that’s it for 5yrs of age then start with strength training and other sports activity.Dhruva is always doing” SHEERSHASANA” SO JUST ONE WEEK BACK WE TOOK HIM TO GYMNASTICS STADIUM NEAR MY HOUSE ,THE TEACHER WAS NOT READY TO TALK AT FIRST HE SAID COME TO ME WHEN HE IS 5YRS OF AGE TOO SMALL FOR ALL THIS.
THEN SPEECH THERAPY CLASS
Bolo apple bole Banana,orange bolo car bolo”FOR 45 MINUTES he used to get pissed off so much ke bus poocho mat.IN 6 months of therapy I changed 3 speech therapist non of them told me about MOUTH MASSAGE.ONE THERAPIST JO PUNE KE BHUT RENOWNED THERAPIST TOOK 1000 RS FOR ASSESSMENT AUR EK LAMBA LIST DE DIYA MOUTH EXERCISE KA JAISE BLOWING SUCKING SIPPING ETC agar ye SAB mujhe ATA Dhuruva Ko kaise sikhana hai to Mai use is therapist ke pass Kyun le jati.BIG question??

NOW COMES MOST HORRIFYING EXPERIENCE OF MY LIFE
ABA THERAPY CLASS…

Naam nahi lete hai but Haan ye wo therapist hai jiska khud ka 16 YRS ka autistic baccha hai THAT LADY nay mere bete ko chocolates aur biscuits ka ADDICT Bana diya tha.IS SEVERE AUTISM SITUATION MAY BHI usnay bete ko MATCHING sikha diya CHOCOLATE DE DE KAR . Mai bhut khush HO GAYI wo MOTHER TURNED THERAPIST BHAGWAN ban Gaye mere liyea but kaise sikhati the ek byte chocolate aur
Fir matching ya beeds dalo FIR CHOCOLATE AS “REINFORCER “MATLAB lagta that ek BEZUBAN ANIMAL Ko sikha Rahi the JAISE DOGS KO TRAIN KARTE HAIN SORRY FOR MY HARSH WORDS BUT SITUATION AIS HE THA..that mom turned therapist ko pata tha GFCFSF diet ke bare may but she never told me to follow this was always misguiding us.her home where we use to takemy son for aba was 1 hrs drive from my home for a 45 min session.

baccha kuch kuch Sikh bhi Gaya is approach se but iss hadd tak chocolates aur biscuits ka habit ho Gaya ke khana band sirf chocolate or biscuit chahiye use…
Hume to laga ki ise chocolate biscuit pasand hai but backend may iski body mein jo ho raha tha woh toh pata hi nahi tha uska VAAT bhut badh Gaya aur central nervous system affect kar diya ..and server au…t..m features aa Gaye SAB.. therapist aur doctor’s sab nay bol diya kuch nahi ho Sakta is BACCHE ke 😭😭😭
Fhir kya tha Mai dead DEPRESSION Mai..😭😭😭din raat Rona nahi Sona beta to pehele he Apne body se pareahan tha jo ke hame nahi pata tha aur Mai ye dekh dekh kar.. depressing may.
DHRUVA STARTED HATING US DUE TO THESE HARASSING THERAPIES I A DAY.HE USES TO GET MORE IRRITATED NOW NO EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT TOWARDS US PREFERRED TO STAY ALONE ALL THE TIME.LOST EYE CONTACT,RESPOND TO NAME,NO CHOICE OF FOOD ETC..LONG LIST OF THESE FEATURES BUT HIS FACE WOULD TELL ME ALWAYS” MOM PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE UNDERSTAND MY PAIN”.

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Ek bar is MELTDOWN ke chakkar may yaad hai mujhe HOLI ke 2 din pehele HOSPITAL le Jana pada that usko manage he nahi ho pa raha tha.. uska crying aur irritation.doctors Ko bhi kuch samajh nahi aa Raha tha..

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YE RONA, NAHI SONA ,NAHI KHANA AUR MERA SATH MAY DEPRESSION EK NEVER ENDING LOOP MAY CHALA GAYA.

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Jab beta hospitalized tha Thak ke MRI Kiya but bete ko anesthesia Dena pada full body tab MRI hua.Reports SAB normal
But jab wo behoshi se utha to ekdam khus aur Normal ho Gaya bilkul NORMAL bacchon jaise ..jaise ke kabhi.kuch hua he na ho..
TO US DIN TO EK BAAT SAMAJH MAY AYE KE nind ya SOUND SLEEP but zaroori hai bete ke liye..

Hospital wale doctors use nind ke kuch dawai bhi de kar sulate they but ek week Baad SAB waisa he ho Gaya back to same problems..Life Laga thik ho Gaye the but again same situation…same crying same screeming..same irritation..Ab Rishi aur mere MOM Ko hum dono Ko Sambhalna padta tha ..jo ke bhut difficult ho Gaya aur hamare ghar bilkul NEGATIVE ho Gaya …

Again mera depression..
Naubat to yaha tak the ke Mai Pschycartist ke pass bhi pauch Gaye medicine Lene DEPRESSION ka but us samay yahi yaad aata that ke agar medicine shuru kiya depression ka to mere bete ka kya Hoga coz ek friend ka dekha that usnay medicines le aur 2saal sirf sote Rehti the….mujhe Laga ke agar ye Liya maine to Mai bhi do saal soyungi aur bete ka jaisa ke SAB Bolte hai 5saal tak he BRAIN ka development hota hai to socha ke tab to ye kabhi bhi thik nahi ho payega..

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Rishi aur mom nay bhut samjhaya ke mat hope choro thik ho jayega ..baccha apna..yaad hai mujhe AJ bhi 😭😭😭Mai nahi Gaye clinic ke andar psycharaitist ke clinic se bhag ke
Ghar aa Gaye aur humne ye socha ke let’s read and search things ke Kyun ho Raha hai ye SAB bete ke saath..

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Asked my MENTOR MY GURU he just said these lines to me “KE JAISA ABHI CHAL RAHA HAI BACHA TOH THIK HONA NISCHIT HAI BUT TUM NAHI BACHOGI USKO DEKHNE KE LIYE BECAUSE YOUR DEPRESSION WILL KILL YOU SO PLS COME OUT OF IT AND LOOK AFTER YOUR CHILD”.WE BROKE THAT NEVER ENDING LOOP NOW.

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Ye baat unke bhut der se samjh aye mujhe..but AJ ache se samajh. May aa. Gayi .
FOLLOWED THE BELOW APPROACH TO TACKLE OUR PROBLEM OF AUTISM….

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To sirf humne Padma aur research karna shuru Kiya Rishi astrology bhi padhte hain..to he had a BOOK jismay ASTROLOGY aur usse hone wali MEDICAL problems and SULUTIONS THEY..

TO DHRUVA KO JO BHI problems ho rahen they wo SAB jab VAAT bhut badh jata hai body may WO e symptoms SAB us ek page may likhe they..
THIS ONE PAGE KNOWLEGDE WAS CHANGING POINT IN OUR LIFE..THAT BOOK WAS THERE IN OUR HOUSE SINCE SO MANY YEARS BUT READ THIS TIME,IT WAS LIKE A MAGICK WAND GOD GAVE US TO FIGHT AUTISM..

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HAMNE WO SAB KAAM KARNA SHURU KAR DIYA jisse BODY KA VAAT Kam ho aur to aur SURPRISE Dhruva thik rehne Laga ..ISI dauran Rishi nay kisis ayurvedic boom may padhai ke massage se EYE CONTACT aa jata hai to wo bhi shuru Kiya..HAMNE pehele kafi time aur apna Sara paise ,doctors ,therapist, homeopath, allopathy,aur music therapy may barbad kar diya tha..
MERE TO AISE MENTALITY HO GAYE THE JO KOI BUS MUJHE BOLE DE KE WO autism thik kar Sakta hai bus Mai wahan pauch jati the BACCHE ke sath ..in SAB chakkaro may SAB paisa bhi loota diya..kuch 7 se 8 kakh kharch ho Gaye they aur result ZERO sirf baccha HARRASE ho Raha tha..

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Is beech ek BACCHE KO bhi dekha therapy centre may jo ke bilkul Autism se bahar aa Chuka tha normal speech ,normal school 5yrs ka to Laga ke kaise thik hua hai ye..
Tab ghar aaja ke itna to pata chala hum teeno Ko ke kuch gadbad KHANE se he ho Rahi hai..

Baat Kiya ja ke use mummy se to unhone bataya ke wo Apne BACCHE KO jab 1.5 yrs ka tha aur doctor’s Autistic bole ..( unka itni jaldi isliyea detection hua coz unka already ek bada beta tha jab cheezen normal nahi dikhi to wo doctor ke pass Gaye aur doctor autism nay 1.5 yrs may he AUTISM BOL DIYA…)..but kyunki bhut chota tha aur shuru se he GFCFSF diet par tha to is BACCHE may autistic feature bhut Kam they aur sab control ho Gaya aur baccha bhut jaldi thik ho Gaya THIS LADY NAY HUME BATAYA KE usnay sirf GFcfsf diet se thik Kiya BACCHE KO..But still unko ye nahi pata the ke MUSCLE TONE kya Hoti hai.unke bete ke muscle tone par kaam nahi hua tha to uske body parts kafi loose hai but now even she has started doing these massage and improving.

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To dono baat connect huei RISHI nay jo astrology for medical book may padha
Shuru Kiya humne bhi diet se..shuru ke 15din bhut DIKKAT hua jowari roti and NO SUGAR and NO Milk jabke bete ko buri tarah insab CHIZON ke aadat lag chuki the..
Wheat ,milk and milk products and Sugar Khane se VAAT BADHTA hai aur VAAT SE ye austic features BADHTE hai..actually ye SAB syomtoms INCREASED VAAT ke hain..but logon nay use AUTISM ka Naam de diya hai..
Fir chor diya DIET but hum ek kaam Roz karte they ROZ SAB LIKHTE THEY KE KYA KHILAYA KAISA MOOD THA AJ
This was the BIGGEST MISTAKE I did In My life.then read these lines somewhere realized that if i work hard for these 2 yrs ahead then life long will be easy so decided to work day and night on my kid to lessen his pain and ultimately our pain.

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Mujhe ittni DIKKAT aye DIET may ke THAK ke bola nahi Hoga mujhse.KYUNKI MUJHSE NAHI HO RAHA THA to maine DIET BAND KAR DIYA..

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RISHI nay fir gaur Kiya ke Jin 15 din beta DIET may tha to ye SAB symptoms bhut Kam ho Gaye the..
Less hyperactive
Less irritation
No scratching
No pinching
Increase eye contact
Increase respond to name
No head banging
Toe walking bhi Kam hua..
With DIET and MASSAGE everything started getting into place my son started recovering now which i was desperately hopping for..

Ek hope to MILI..DIMAG MAY BUS YAHI THA KE US LADY NAY APNE BACCHE KO SIRF DIET SE THIK KIYA HAI..

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To hum bhi lag Gaye 1 se 2 mahine may Laga ke magic ho Raha hai baccha
KHUSH rehne Laga ..
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Hyperactive Kam ho Gaya
No ittitaion..MATLAB SAB symptoms Kam hone Lage..Khushi ka to ab Thikana nahi tha..😄😄😃
Felt ke bus ho gaya SAB thik but fir jab VAAT bilkul Kam ho Gaya body ka to bhi SAB normal nahi ho Raha tha jo damage already Dhruva ke body may ho chuki the uska kya .. MUSCLE TONE V LOW..

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Itna ke hath he nahi uthata tha bye bolne ke liyea..
Lagta that ungliyon may JAAN he nahi hai..
To ye SAB problems Massage se thik huea ..
Rishi nay kahin padha ke Aroma MASSAGE se ye SAB thik hota hai to wo Kiya 2 MAHINE may FULL EYE CONTACT AUR RESPOND TO NAME AA GAYA..
Muscle tone improved so much with the two ayurvedic oils that jo baccha bye nhai karta tha aj HALDI crush karta hai amamjaste may..you can see the video on my youtube channel.
Ye SAB ek din may nahi hua hai 8 mahine Lage humlog 3 log Ko mil kar karne may..
To pehele SAB log HELP IKKATHA karo aur mom ap to lag jao SAB bhul kar BACCHE may..

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Jin log ke Bachche Abhi chote hai wo in parents se poocho jinke BACCHE bade ho Gaye hain ke kitni mushkil Hoti hai baccha palna jab YE SARE SYMPTOMS BEHAVIOR ban jate hain..its so tough to nurture kids with all the symptoms..so start today will full dedication and hard work to brighten your kids future and ultimately your too.

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later when Dhruva ke symptoms Kam ho Gaye bilkul to fir se Ane lagte they to realise hua ke YE PACKET JOWARI aur PACKET BESAN may kuch to Mila hai adulteration hai tab he fir se symptoms aa jate hain..so started getting jowari,rice,besan,haldi too grinded in chakki infront of my eyes.

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To pls DIET KARO ISI SE THIK HOGA BACHHA AUR MASAAGE..
To SAB chakki se PISWA ke Lena shru Kiya tab situation control hua..kuch hadd tak8 months se humne wo SAB record Kiya hai likha hai ke jo bhi khilaya Dhruva Ko to pata chala AJ ye packet ka diya AJ wo diya jisse use irritation ho Rahi hai..below is the format to keep record..

Pata hai mujhe kis baat se Sabse jyada GUILT HOTI Hai ke

For example
Hume kisi chiz se allergy hai to ek bar khane ke Baad hum uske life may kabhi nahi khana pasand karte hai..

But kyunki baccha nahi bol pata ke use ye kha kar thik nahi lag raha aur hum usko din raat yahi Khila RAHEN adulteration wala khana, to itna irritant ho Gaya uske body may to kaise react karega. What do you all expect..

Socho SAB koi..
Ja ke Bachche KO HUG🤗karo aur imagine karo usnay jo pain bardash Kiya itne saal..

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Pata hai hum teeno nay ek bade se poster may likh ke hang kar diya tha ke

“DHRUVA BINA BAAT KE NAHI ROTA HAI”

Ye hamesha hame yaad dilata that ke ye TANTRUMS YA MELTDOWN NAHI HAI..

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KUCH acha nahi ho Raha food ke Karan isliye baccha pareshan hai..To Immediately hum wo copy check karte ke kya diya khane may ke aise react kar Raha hai aj..

Soch Badlo SAB FOOD BADLO..

FOOD ADULTERATION ISS hadd tak hai apne country may ke
Aj 8 mahine ho Gaye diet karte karte par Abhi bhi lagta hai mera ghar PRESERVATIVE FREE aur ADULTERATION FREE Nahi hua hai..

Jab ye Adulterated khana kha kha ke baccha ke VAAT itna Badh jata hai ke uske CENTRAL NERVOUS SYSTEM ko effect kar deta hai and sumptoms start getting worse of autism so they tag kids as autistic.Hamare baccho ke body bhut SENSITIVE hai unke body type ye ADULTERATION Ko digest karne ke liyea nahi Bani hai isliyea ye so called AUTISM ke symptoms ate hai..make your home ADULTERATION FREE in all aspects and kids will be cured 100% i say that of this AUTISM.

KIDS WILL BE ABSOLUTELY FINE AT HOME ITSELF

HAVE LOT OF EXPERIENCE NOW.

LEFT MY JOB AND 24 HRS FORM 8 MONTHS WORKING WITH MY KID SO PLEASE ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES AND START WORKING.

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PARENTS WHOSE KIDS ARE VERY YOUNG CAN MAKE THEM COME OUT THE SPECTRUM IN V SHORT PERIOD OF TIME, IF THEY WORK HARD YOU SHOULD ASK THOSE PARENTS WHOSE KIDS ARE YOUNG AND WHEN AFTER READING ALL MY ARTICLE THE REALISE THAT THEY WOULD HAVE DONE ALL THESE APPROACH AND TASK WHEN THEY WERE SMALL THEN THERE KID WOULDN’T HAVE BEEN FACING THESE PROBLEMS OF severe Autism WHICH THEY ARE FACING AT PRESENT THIS THERAPY OR THIS APPROACH WILL HELP ALL THE KIDS EITHER THEY ARE SMALL OR YOUNG ONE’S.
plz Apne galti accept karo SAB aur lag jao kaam par nahi to un parents se poocho wo pain jinke BACCHE AJ bade ho Gaye hain aur chah ke bhi nahi kar pa rahen DIET coz ab BACCHA manageble he nahi Raha.
Itne adat ho Gaye hai junk food ke ke bus.Mai apna bhut important TIME IS GROUP ke de Rahin Hun and I expect same religious hard work from u all.COME ON ALL MOMS YOU ALL ARE ABOVE NORMAL MOMS PROMISE TO YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL HELP YOUR KID FIGHT OUT OF THIS WORLD OF AUTISM..

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mouth massage, picture communication,Trekking swimming involving kids into any activity will take time first with diet let the kid adjust his body, let them calm down ,relax hone do then only we can do like any activities with them
let his body adjust to this new diet
Let all the toxin get flushed out from his body
I have made this platform FREE OF COST to share each and every experience of mine so please you all don’t worry I will give solution to all the problems but Pehle please diet and Aroma massage and AYURVEDA massage karo SAB koi..
Bacchon ko independent Banaye and parents ki life bhi easy ho jaye..

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SO THEY ARE IN PAIN UNDERSTAND THERE PAIN WORK ON THERE PAIN RATHER THAN SAYING THEY ARE THROWING TANTRUMS AND HAVING MELTDOWN.

IN AUTISM KIDS FEEL LIKE THEY ARE BEHIND THAT MIRROR WALL THEY SAY AD TRY TO COMMUNICATE EVERYTHING BUT ARE UN ABLE TO DO SO..SO UNDERSTAND YOUR CHILD AS PARENTS.WITH YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE THEY WIL BREAK THIS MIRROR AND COME OUT AND DO WONDERS IN LIFE..

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LET THEM COME OUT OF THAT MIRROR WALL FREE AND LIVE THERE LIFE..

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SO ALL PARENTS START WORKING RELIGIOUSLY TOWARDS YOUR KIDS FUTURE.

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“Positive thinking is powerful thinking. If you want happiness, fulfillment, success and inner peace, start thinking you have the power to achieve those things. Focus on the bright side of YOUR KIDS and expect positive results.”

Again, keeping patience and loving your child and yourself too, is the most important thing.IF YOU ALL ARE HAPPY THEN THE BABY WILL BE HAPPY..

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE HERE IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS.

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come on mommies get charged up and geared up and make the move…

love u all…READ THE ARTICLE ITS VVV IMPORTANT CLICK ON BELOW LINK

DO AND DONTS WHILE ON RECOVERY
do post your queries on :

dhruvatheshinningstar@gmail.com.

Sneha Narayan AND Rishikant Narayan

DISCLAIMER: THIS WEBSITE DOES NOT PROVIDE MEDICAL ADVICE
The information, including but not limited to, text, graphics, images and other material contained on this website are for informational purposes only. The purpose of this website is to promote understanding and knowledge of various health topics. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or treatment and before undertaking a new health care regimen, and never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website.
Autism cure possible does not recommend or endorse any specific tests, physicians, products, procedures, opinions or other information that may be mentioned on this website. Relying on any information appearing on this website is solely at your own risk.

Water(Aquatic,Hydro) Therapy by Sneha Narayan

Autism spectrum disorders manifest in a number of ways, from problems with behavior and communication to developmental and cognitive disabiliities.
Autism spectrum disorders (ASDs) are increasing in prevalence. Children with ASDs present with impairments in social interactions; communication; restricted, repetitive, and stereotyped patterns of behavior, interests, or activities; as well as motor delays. Hydrotherapy is used as a treatment for children with disabilities and motor delays.

For me also was struggling through all these\n in Dhruva 1.5 years back but meet a renowned Doctor (orthopedic MD) who has even treated Sachin Tendulkar..to discuss Dhruva’s Muscle tone problem..and he just advised 2 hrs WATER PLAY DAILY BY FAIL.

This therapy helped us a lot to develop bonding with him.

One common treatment for children with autism spectrum disorders is aquatic therapy or hydrotherapy and steam therapy.

In this therapy use water immersion to achieve therapeutic gains that may be too difficult for a child to attain through land-based physical therapies.
Hydrotherapy is a natural remedy for treating medical conditions using water. Hydrotherapy can come in the forms of steam, vapor, water, and ice and it has benefits for various ailments in adults. Did you know that Hydrotherapy can benefit children with ailments, too? It sure can! Hydrotherapy for children is more common than we think. What makes it better? Children love water, whether playing in a pool or even in the backyard with a garden hose.

For 2 months we have been following as advised by doctor and wonders happened his stability and balance has improved ..his sensory need got fulfilled and was more happy and calm..after water play.

Topics to be covered in today’s blog:

  • Autism and water therapy

  • Benefits of water therapy

  • Sensory Processing Benefits of Aquatic Therapy

  • Hydrostatic pressure

  • Vestibular Stimulation

  • Proprioceptive feedback

  • Physical Benefits of Aquatic Therapy

  • Social and Behavioral Benefits of Aquatic Therapy

  • Additional Information about Hydrotherapy for Children

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    Benefits of water therapy

Being submerged in water provides calming support, pressure, and buoyancy that helps kids on the autism spectrum develop their sensory processing skills, reach new physical milestones, and strengthen their social skills and self-regulation abilities.
It’s not necessary you require a swimming pool .you can even have a small plastic tub to carry water therapy.

Try taking the baby to beaches..it not only helps to bond child with parents but also improves social communication..

Interested in how hydrotherapy might be able to help a child in your life with autism? Keep reading to learn more.

Note: “Hydrotherapy” and “aquatic therapy” are used interchangeably in this blog post

A few ways aquatic therapy can help ease symptoms of ASD are:

  • Better Balance. Aquatic therapy helps strengthen muscles, which increases balance and develops better range of motion. It helps that water play is fun and individualized, even for kids on the spectrum.
  • Better Communication Skills. Being in the water doesn’t mean a lot of social interaction, but it can be a safe place to practice small interactions without the pressure to chat.
  • Help With Sensory Issues. Often, children with ASD struggle with sensory integration disorders. Water tends to have a calming effect, and some therapies include activities designed to help sensory issues.
  • Better Oral Motor Skills. Some kids with ASD struggle with certain motor skills, like sipping through a straw or blowing out candles on a cake. Because aquatic therapy includes activities like blowing bubbles in water or blowing a ball across the water, kids develop stronger oral motor skills.
  • Better Swimmers. Being in the water makes kids more comfortable when it’s time to learn to swim. Water is especially hazardous for children with ASD because many have difficulty communicating when they are in danger. Aquatic therapy gives autistic kids time to build a crucial skill.
  • Cognitive Learning

    Children improve range of motion, neurodevelopmental growth, and body awareness with hydrotherapy. Their attention span increases, along with impulse control, concentration and focus, along with the ability to follow directions.

  • Task Completion

Autistic children respond better with visual cues and tangible rewards than with verbal cues. These children who practice hydrotherapy also tend to be better visual learners.

  • Water Safety

During hydrotherapy, children have a better understanding of water safety, but still require a significant amount of supervision as they still lack verbal responses. kids become familiar with water, gain skills with swimming, and understand the safety hazards.

The swimming pool can be transformed into a sensory room with different treatment stations that have different treatment aims such as memory development, co-ordination development , proprioceptive and vestibular feedback. This is done using different props within the water. Each exercise and activity can include one or all of the senses such as visual, auditory, tactile etc as well as using memory, sequencing and other cognitive processes. Speech and language can be developed along side mathematics and the level can be graded according to the child’s ability. The water adds a new dimension to the senses, giving resistance where it is needed and helping with movement flow as required. It is a great way to incorporate strengthening exercises and promote general fitness for the children.

Sensory Processing Benefits of Aquatic Therapy

Most children with autism also experience a mild to severe sensory integration disorder, or the inability to effectively take in, organize, and respond to sensory input. In fact, sensory processing deficits are one of the main triggers behind the inappropriate, anti-social, or self-destructive behaviors that are often associated with autism spectrum disorder.

Occupational therapy seek to minimize these sensory issues through sensory modulations. Sensory therapies usually refers to activities, such as swinging, jumping, touching different textures, or trying new foods that stimulate the senses. It also refers to external supports, such as weighted blankets, pressure vests, and full-spectrum lightings, that help children with autism better cope with sensory deficits. It is necessary to help children with autism thrive.

Interestingly, aquatic therapy help with sensory modulation. In other words, aquatic therapy includes activities meant to help children with autism strengthen their sensory processing skills, while the water itself is a sensory modulation—and an ideally safe and supportive environment for trying new skills. Water, particularly warm water, provides children with autism with three kinds of sensory support:

Hydrostatic pressure

Children with autism are known to crave deep pressure. Water provides this through hydrostatic pressure, or the pressure that a liquid exerts when it’s at rest. Water exerts 30x more deep pressure stimulation on the body than air. More importantly, unlike pressure vests or weighted blankets, water completely surrounds and envelopes the child’s body, perfectly distributing an equal and consistent amount of pressure on all submerged parts of the body. The result is an especially calming environment that soothes children with autism, helps them organize other sensory inputs, and gives them more confidence to try new movements.

Vestibular stimulation

Some of the obsessive, repetitive behaviors that children with autism exhibit, such as rocking and twirling, are directly related to an underdeveloped vestibular system.

Children with autism usually engage in these activities because they are trying, by external measures, to develop a sense of balance. Unfortunately, these maladaptive modulations are also distracting and, too often, self-destructive. By contrast, moving around in water creates a controlled vestibular situation that is safe and more effective than other methods.

Proprioceptive feedback

Aquatic therapy for children with autism includes activities specifically designed to provide proprioceptive feedback. Proprioception, also known as your sixth sense, is your body’s ability to understand where it is in space—which is an ability that develops later in childhood, explaining why babies need to be held and why toddlers’ movements are erratic. For children with autism, this sense is usually underdeveloped, making them seem clumsy or strange in their movements. In water, the resistance children encounter when they move, the feel of water rushing past them, and the hydrostatic pressure when they are still all combine to give enhanced proprioceptive feedback and improve this sense.

After an aquatic therapy session,kids report better moods, better focusing abilities, and better sensory processing abilities. The enhanced sensory input that children with autism receive in water helps them develop body awareness, gain greater touch tolerance, and improve their ability to coordinate all of the different sensory inputs received from the environment and focus on the correct one.Those who don’t have swimming pool can use this tub easily available online.

Physical Benefits of Aquatic Therapy

In addition to all of the sensory processing benefits, aquatic therapy also helps children with autism develop physically. Of course, any type of exercise is beneficial, but moving in water works more muscles simultaneously than any other exercise! Water exercise not only strengthens all muscles, including the heart, it also improves coordination, range of motion, balance, and endurance—all skills that tend to be underdeveloped in children with autism.

More importantly, being in water makes the body more lighter and more buoyant, and reduces the fear of injury, making children with autism feel more confident trying new movements that they might never try on land. This confidence, in turn, gives them an increased sense of mastery and accomplishment, usually through the use of play-based, functional movements.

Finally, working in water can enhance core strength, reduce pain and stress on the joints and soft tissues, improve motor planning and fine motor skills, strengthen oral motor skills (such as blowing out candles or drinking through a straw), and increase breathing control.

Social and Behavioral Benefits of Aquatic Therapy

On top of all of the other benefits of aquatic therapy, being in the water is just plain fun. After a successful session, many occupational therapists report that children with autism are more talkative and social, better able to cooperate—and more interested in imaginative and group play.

The calming effects of being in water tend to last well past the initial session. Psychologically, hydrotherapy often results in better moods, better impulse control, improved self-esteem and body image, decreased anxiety, and a marked drop in problem behaviors.

There are secondary benefits to aquatic therapy, too. For kids, being in the water doesn’t feel like a chore or like a clinical doctor’s office — it’s fun.

It doesn’t matter how big or small a child is — the water accommodates all sizes. Some sensory issues make it difficult for kids on the spectrum to comfortably take part, but water helps. It eases anxiety and calms feelings of discomfort.

All kids have trouble with short attention spans, but this is particularly true of autistic children. Being in the water tends to help them stay focused.

Aquatic Therapy Can Improve Social Behaviors

More than anything else, many children with autism spectrum disorders struggle to socialize. Since aquatic therapies are inherently social in nature (they occur between a therapist and one or more patients), they can offer children with autism an effectively structured way to form social bonds and learn interpersonal skills that can be transferred to other areas of life.

In addition, aerobic exercise like swimming has been shown to reduce negative behaviors common in children with autism, such as rocking, spinning, head-nodding, hand flapping, object-tapping, and light gazing. These kinds of behaviors can be a hindrance to normal socialization, and their reduction may make social connections with peers and other individuals easier. Analyses of studies published in major journals corroborate these claims.

Hydrotherapy Can Help with Sensory Processing Disorders

Autism often coincides with sensory processing disorders, making children suffer from frequent “sensory overload.” The hydrostatic pressure in water has been show to help children with sensory processing disorders or vestibular issues by providing a gentle, soothing physical environment.

Additional Information about Hydrotherapy for Children

While hydrotherapy works for adults and children alike, certain measures are taken into consideration for children for a successful therapy session. Children require a lower water temperature for hydrotherapy to avoid scalding and burns. The safe water temp for hydrotherapy in children is 90 to 94 degrees Fahrenheit. Also, hydrotherapy times are different from adults due to size and age. Children are in the water for 10 minutes times their age. For example, a five year old will use hydrotherapy for 50 minutes for a successful session.

See Improved Outcomes With Aquatic Therapy

Behavioral therapy is much easier after time in the water, which helps calm a busy body and mind. Exercise itself is a form of therapy, and when done it water, it’s not work.

Because dietary changes are sometimes met with opposition, it’s easier to tackle these when children are hungry — and water exercise is great for increasing appetites.

Aquatic therapy can help with the side effects of certain drugs. The exercise helps your child process medications and will often work against effects like drowsiness or weight gain. Because the exercise involves water play, children are happy to join.

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There are three key factors in hydrotherapy, and they are heat, buoyancy, and massage. The heat of the water helps relax the child before therapy begins. The buoyancy of the water reduces body weight, allowing less pressure on the body during movements and exercises. The massaging feature is created by a mixture of water and air through water jets. The water jets help relax muscles, massage the body, and allow ease of sensory processing in children.

With all the benefits of hydrotherapy for autistic children, therapy is most easily done at home. get a normal tub that will hardly cost 2000 to 400 bucks and start at home itself. This is one style of a hot tub that is easy to install, eco-friendly, and budget-friendly, too.

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as its rainy season pack u bags and go out in nature with kids give them as much exposure as u can do not give any excuse to yourself ..kids love water just go out in nature and let them too enjoy and calm themselves..Pune and around are full of water falls and lush green atmosphere take them out..you can take them to beaches..just get up and go..sharing some pics of our adventurous tours with Dhruva..try to keep them close with water..it work wonders…a family outing with our kids improves bonding and reduces the stress we go through our day to day life.

Helping your child manage and reduce their symptoms is the best bet for combating the challenges of ASD. Regardless of which therapy works best for your child, aquatic therapy can give your child something to look forward to while improving autism symptoms.

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Water is stimulating and exciting and most children love the difference of doing their therapy activities in the water. Activities can be adapted to suit many children in a fun and stimulating way. The water can also be used as a calming tool with relaxing music, a warmer temperature and attention to lighting.

Occupational therapy is based on purposeful and meaningful activity in which the person concerned actively engages in their treatment. Purposeful and meaningful activity for children is play. Children learn through play and play is used in THERAPY. Water play, therefore, is becoming increasingly popular for sensory integration, developmental co-ordination disorder, attention deficits, hyper active children and many other condition…

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kids are precious treasures of future.All the kids have right to be happy and parents too.No child in this world is without a mission.Parents are exerting themselves to raise a child everyday and mommies your work is truly praise worthy.i offer them my utmost support.this 21st century must be an era in which all the parents and children can walk the great path to happiness..
Children are messengers from future we have no choice but entrust our world to them.I TRUST CHILDREN.I BELIEVE IN THERE ABILITY TO GROW AND DEVELOP.Every child possesses a unique and important mission.for this reason i treat all our children with respect and i give all to doing so.JUST TREAT THEM AS NORMAL KIDS CREATE ONLY HAPPY MEMORIES WITH THEM..

LOVE U ALL….

come on mommies get charged up and geared up and make the move..
Do like my blog and share your queries on

do post your queries on :dhruvatheshinningstar@gmail.com.

DISCLAIMER: THIS WEBSITE DOES NOT PROVIDE MEDICAL ADVICE
The information, including but not limited to, text, graphics, images and other material contained on this website are for informational purposes only. The purpose of this website is to promote understanding and knowledge of various health topics. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or treatment and before undertaking a new health care regimen, and never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website.
Autism cure possible does not recommend or endorse any specific tests, physicians, products, procedures, opinions or other information that may be mentioned on this website. Relying on any information appearing on this website is solely at your own risk.